Thursday, March 28, 2013

The one about Reed's mis-communication


We were having a perfectly normal morning the other day.  The four of us getting started on breakfast and Reed was wondering around the kitchen.  Then he said to no one in particular, “I want some sex”.



Mike and I immediately looked at each other- both of our eyes wide in surprise! Both of us wondering where he heard that, because we have fallen victim to him repeating things we say at random times.  In my mind I kept thinking…  Did I say that in front of him? Why would I say that in front of him?!
So I said, “Reed, what did you just say?” he repeats, “I want some sex.” I said, “Who said that, Reed? Who said they want that?”
Then he looked at me like I was the funny one, and said, “Me. I’m hungry for some sex. Do you want some sex, Dad?  Mom, are you hungry for some sex?”
I told him it was none of his business. But really, now I’m beginning to wonder what he’s really saying.  Finally, he says, “I want some sex for breakfast!” and it clicks. Chex cereal.  He wanted some Chex for breakfast.
Decker is getting to be very affectionate. Not just “hold me” stuff, but he wants to dish out some hugs. Being on the receiving end of one of these purely Decker-initiated-hugs, is one of the best things. Especially when he gives a little pat on your back with his hand.
He’s toddling around the house like a champ these days and climbing the playgrounds like a big boy.  He wants to be involved with the other kids and do whatever Reed’s doing, too.
The funniest thing about Decker though, is his appetite. Even if he’s stuffed full and won’t eat another bite of his meal- as soon as you pick up something to eat, he wants it! And he throws a full-on-over-the-moon tantrum about it. That kid can scream! It’s mostly hilarious, sometimes annoying! 

Thursday, March 14, 2013

The one about the Novel goal


You guys know I like to write… I write for you as frequently as I can. You can tell when I am enjoying it by how much fun it is to read.  You also know I have tons of free time (attempting sarcasm here), so – with that in mind, I announce that I’m going to start on my novel.  Actually start- like, pen to paper stuff.  I've officially started a writing journal with pages of character brainstorming, plot ideas and theme/symbolism ideas.  My goal is that in two years I will have a draft worthy of sending to a publisher.
In order to meet this goal, I’m going to put a lot of my free time into brainstorming and novel planning. I can’t give up reading though, which is why I am giving myself plenty of time, and what I think is a realistic goal.  I love to read novels and I can’t give that up if I want my creative brain in tip top shape.  Yesterday, I found myself swimming an unknown amount of laps as I considered my favorite plot ideas and let my imagination unravel on them.   What a great time to brainstorm!  I know now that I’ll master the multitasking I need to be able to take on this project.  How else can I fit this into my life?  I don’t want to give anything else up.  But, when I’m out there in my running shoes putting miles on the pavement, or underwater at the pool- I can escape into my land of fantasy and make the most of that time my brain has available.  The downside of course is the inability to take any notes, but I figure if it’s that great of an idea, I’m sure to remember it, right?
The other great thing I have going for me is that I have a great support group and an impressive amount of resources.  My husband for one- he’s wanted me to write a book for years and is excited about me starting.  Also, I have a book club that meets once a month, so I have creative minds and expert opinions to tap.  These ladies will also be very valuable as editors- if they don’t mind *grin*
The biggest problem I can see right now is not my busy schedule, or my lack of free time, or the commitment to a long term project, or the fear of failure or the fear of giving up… these are all minor concerns.  What worries me is how I’m going to narrow it all down and choose just one idea to focus on! My imagination has burst through the dam and flooded my mind with plots and characters and I can’t write them all! I just have to be confident that the right one will outshine the rest and just scream, “WRITE ME!”
Anyway, wish me luck! And hold me accountable. I want to really love this and enjoy the whole process, -don’t let me give up or get discouraged! I know, I’m giving you all a really big job *grin*